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Transformational Healing Play

Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” ~ Rumi

“It’s not a question of learning much. On the contrary. It’s a question of unlearning much.” ~ OSHO

 

Between the stimulus and response, there is a space. And in that space lies our freedom and power to choose our responses. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” ~ Victor Frankl

If I had to say what is Timothy’s greatest gift I would say: he makes clients COME ALIVE.

 This is Timothy’s mastery. Working with him I discovered that therapy doesn’t have to be boring or painful; I have felt totally guided with tenderness and lightness. Together, we are playing through the pain. His methods are very effective. And what is wonderful is that I have never felt judged or rejected in my expressions and feelings, but I have been guided in welcoming what there is. This is so rare and precious!”  ~ Sara

Are You Ready for a Breakthrough in Your Life?!

Here is my favorite and most effective offering for awakening and clearing anything that is limiting your freedom, joy, self-love, self-acceptance and success in any area of your life.  We can clear anything that is blocking you from fully enjoying a full-bodied, authentic life, with wonderful connection and deep intimacy in your relationships. This work goes well beyond psychotherapy and life coaching, though includes essential pieces of both. My approach eliminates so many of the limitations and negatives that so many people experience in therapy and coaching. This approach allows for greater growth and expanded transformation in a format that is far more comfortable, relational and focused in the present. Are you ready to feel free and live the life of your dreams, while truly enjoying the process?! Are you ready to shift your mind, life, relationships, business or career through deep play.

Underneath it all, what do you REALLY WANT?

My gift is making it feel very safe and comfortable, almost easy for people to really know and be able to say what they most want; what would really be personally enjoyable, meaningful and fulfilling. Secondly, I know how to make it fun to create and experience what you really want.

Drawing upon over 25 years as a counselor, somatic-gestalt trauma psychotherapist, life coach, and energy healer, I am now offering a new way to clear away the emotional wounds, fears, and body-mind defenses that are in the way of experiencing deep connection, joy and freedom.

This coaching offer is based on my personal experiences over a journey of a lifetime. This work includes the essence and essentials of what I have found most effective for both myself and my clients; what has been most healing and transformative. Drawn from all of my experiences in all kinds of healing, therapeutic and transformational work, including many years of personal psychotherapy, somatic, body-centered trauma therapies and trainings, personal growth workshops, tantra trainings, many forms of bodywork, mindfulness and meditation, movement and dance (including Argentine Tango and Contact Improv), intuitive-process painting, creative process writing, study and practice of many forms of alternative healing and naturopathic medicine. 

What are a few things that make my transformational healing~play so successful?

  • Deep Relational Connection and Presence
  • Gentleness
  • Playfulness
  • Humor
  • Deep listening, empathy and understanding.
  • Being a coach-therapist that suffered for a few decades with severe complex PTSD, major social anxiety, and a number of body-mind disconnection issues. I spent a good part of my life healing from toxic, abusive relationships, freeing my self of shame and from life-crushing low confidence and low self-worth. At the same time, I have spent my entire life supporting other people to become empowered and free.
  • I now specialize in embodiment transformational practices that go well beyond the practices of psychotherapy and life coaching: Experiential transformational~healing play; soul play; creating deep connection between mind, body and soul: intrapersonal and interpersonal connection. 
  • I was born a highly sensitive individual, with natural healing transformation gifts. 
  • I am highly intuitive, highly empathic, and highly emotionally intelligent. Throughout my entire life clients and friends have reported spontaneous healing and transformation when interacting with me.
  • My greatest joy is gifting connection and freedom to others and seeing their lives and joy expanding.

How may I serve you? What do YOU desire?

Here are some of the things I specialize in resolving for my clients in my transformational~healing~play coaching: 

  • Clearing whatever is blocking your energy and freedom.
  • Building confidence and self-esteem.
  • Becoming comfortable being vulnerable.
  • Owning Your Voice.
  • Empowerment.
  • Creating safety, boundaries and consent. 
  • Clearing away fear and anxiety of all kinds, especially social anxiety.
  • Owning and living by your core, confident, empowered self
  • Deepening authentic connection in all relationships.
  • Learning to let go, surrender.
  • Increasing love, intimacy and pleasure.
  • Increasing energy on all levels. 
  • Increasing connection to the inner self and inner child. 
  • Increasing connection to your inner and divine guidance.
  • Resolving emotional, mental and sexual issues and trauma.
  • Healing from abusive, toxic, dysfunctional, and narcissistic parents, family members and partners. 
  • Dearmoring physical, emotional and mental blocks so you can enjoy greater connection and enjoyment of life.
  • Deshaming body image. 
  • Clearing away all forms of shame and self judgement. 
  • Awaking compassion and tenderness toward self.
  • Increasing full body-mind awareness.
  • Embracing your whole free self.  
  • Experiencing abundance and prosperity in your life.
  • Learning to attract into your life whatever will truly bring you meaning, fulfillment and joy.

How will we do this?

First of all, my approach is always a collaboration between us. It is co-creative and tailored uniquely to each individual client. We will deeply listen to your personal needs and desires. Everything we do is by consent, with clear understanding of what we are doing and why. I am always deeply listening to my own inner guidance as well as my client’s energy and guidance.

ALL OF YOU IS WELCOME HERE:  Your hurt self, sad self, scared self, anxious self, angry self, confused self, avoidant self, shameful self, shy self, inner child, wild child, creative self, dancing self, curious self, sweet self, sensual self, spiritual self; sensitive, tender, lost, confident, intense, not sure, searching, desiring, powerful, dominant, submissive, dark, light, And ALL YOUR OTHER PARTS, known and unknown, especially the unknown. Most people have limited awareness of all their parts, and struggle to welcome, integrate and love them All. This is the crux of our work together: making conscious, welcoming and integrating all our parts. 

What are some possible experiences and practices I offer?

Again, these are possibilities, though we may end up working differently. We will decide together what will serve you best. We always honor and respect what feels safe to you, and serves your unique healing needs and desires.

To the extent we empower and experience our life force, our embodied aliveness and spirit, our fear, anxiety and suffering will diminish.

Ways we may choose to work together:
  • A safe place to speak and explore your thoughts and feelings.
  • Deepening Boundaries and Consent.
  • Somatic sensing and mindfulness practices.
  • Healing Breathwork.
  • Energy Healing.
  • Embodiment practices.
  • Freeing Voice and Self Expression practices.
  • Learning to Know and Express Clearly YOUR Yes and NO!
  • Creative Expression practices.
  • Intuitive Process Coloring-Drawing-Painting
  • Relational~Creative~Deep~Play
  • Parts Integration Work
  • Role Play
  • Inner Child Connection Healing.
  • Relational Mindful Movement~Dance~Play
  • Reconnection to Primal Nature.
  • Sensation Play.
  • Various Practices to Increase Conscious Love, Intimacy, and Pleasure in Relationships.
  • Build Social, Dating and Relationship Skills.

Additional information for those considering working with me:

  • My Transformational Healing~Play and Tantric Coaching work welcomes women, men, and couples.
  • I am also available for travel, public and social outings, explorations in nature, dance classes, workshops, dating and social anxiety support. 
  • Most work is best in-person, though some can be done by video.
  • This is not psychotherapy. This is transformational healing.
  • If you feel drawn to working with me, begin by sending me an email. Tell me about yourself, why you are drawn to working with me, and what you hope to get out of it.  

    Lastly, I want you to know, that nothing excites me more, creates more passion and joy in me than meeting and working with people that are truly intent on transforming their lives and bringing more freedom, pleasure, love and divine connection into this world! This has been my whole life’s passion and work, and I love it!

    I so much look forward to hearing from you (you know deep inside if working with me is calling you; take a moment to breathe, feel, sense, ask within and listen to your heart).

    With love,

    Timothy